Friends..we can paralyze ourselves with the need to have all the details in order, with the desire to know all of the hows, with the reasons why we're not quite ready, and whatever other story we tell ourselves to keep from diving into the changes/dreams/goals we know we need to go after in our lives. At some point, though, we have to dive in. You'll never have all the details worked out, and they'll change along the way. You'll never know all the hows, and you don't need to. Nobody does. There will always be reasons you're not ready enough, and always fears that will beg you not to do a thing. Sometimes the only way we can overcome all of these obstacles is by starting, wherever we are, with whatever we have to offer in the moment. Really, just begin. Scott Stabile
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It’s true that we can paralyze ourselves by trying to have all the details in order. We can, however, also paralyze ourselves by trying to have all the hows and all the whys nailed down. In other words, by trying to be absolutely sure of everything before we do anything. Usually, it’s not possible to be absolutely sure of anything, so trying is usually futile.

The only way to overcome our fears is to start, wherever we are, with whatever we have to offer in the moment. And, really, just begin.

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